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Marriage on TV looked grand, didn’t it?

Romance. Laughs. Devotion. Today’s shows don’t reflect those feelings much. Hopefully, that doesn’t change your desire to have IT ALL in your marriage.

Delight Yourself in the Lord and He will give you the desires of your heart. (Psalm 37:4)

I believe that you can create the marriage that you desire. You can do it with passion, love, integrity, boldness and support. That’s why I founded the Bringing Sexy Back to the Marriage (BSB) conference. The goal of the conference is to teach wives how to live boldly for God, passionately in life and confidently in their marriage. You are not alone. Every year I assemble other wife experts – yes, real wives with real issues- to inspire, encourage, and instruct you on making your marriages greater.

This year’s conference is no different. Check out the topics and speakers for BSB 2018.

Single Registration
Girlfriend Group Rate
Gail Crowder
Gail Crowder

Heels and Hose = Hottie!

There’s nothing sexier than long, lean legs in stockings wearing High Heels. Fashion Expert and Founder of the BSB Conference, Gail Crowder will teach you how to hide your flaws, accentuate your assets and strut your stuff with confidence…..in just your Heels and Hose. This class is guaranteed to be Hot, Hot, Hot!

Gail Crowder is a wife of 29 years (and counting) and mother of two sons. She is a certified marriage and life coach. When Gail is not on stage, on the radio, or hosting an event online, she educates herself to better serve YOU, Sexy Wife. Her latest book, Keep Your Legs Open: The Wives Guide to Sexual Satisfaction, keeps the radio and TV shows calling. For more info on Gail and her upcoming book, Praying for the Penis, check her out on Facebook or on her website.

Trenace Richardson
Trenace Richardson

God’s Design for Intimacy & Pleasure in Marriage

Intimacy is vital for all relationships. Pleasure was God’s idea and still is. Trenace Richardson will expose the original intent of both in the context of marriage.

Trenace Richardson is a blessed wife to Gregory and mom of two. She is nationally-recognized speaker and mentor dedicated to helping women grow, connect, and lead from the soul. The creator of REAL Women, an intimate, safe place for women to do real work on themselves. Dr. Richardson is a published author, having written on the spirituality and leadership practices of Black women college presidents, servant leadership, spirituality in the workplace, and leadership development. She can be reached on Facebook or on her website.

Dr. LaVonne Shaw
Dr. LaVonne Shaw

Arousing Passion In Marriage

Passion is described as a powerful and compelling emotion or sexual desire. Couples with passion can’t wait to see each other, can barely keep their hands off each other and can sometimes become aroused at just the mention of their lover’s name. Yet, life can get in the way. Dr. Lavonne is going to help you fix that.

Dr. Lavonne Shaw is married to Elder Micheal and have 4 children, 1 miracle birth and 3 bonus foster children. In 2008, La Vonne began her journey of writing. In 2010, she open their publishing company and self published her first book entitled Sex Between the Sheets: What God Allows! A Christian Sex Guide with Biblical Principles. This book allowed La Vonne a different Platform where she is now better known as “The Erogenous Coach” around the World! Rev. Dr. La Vonne and Elder Michael are proudly doing ministry beyond four walls at Majestic Life Global Ministries. She can reached on Facebook or on her website.

Lisa Shudel
Lisa Shudel

The Art of Touch – Sensual Massage

Lisa will teach massage techniques that aim to integrate the sexual, spiritual and physical, sides of massage. To allow you to understand the power that you possess as a wife when you TOUCH your husband.

Lisa Shudel is married to John and lives in her life passion as a entrepreneur in health and wellness field. But eight years into her massage therapy practice, she redefined what successful business ownership looked like for herself. Today, whether she is working with clients on her massage table or sharing with them a convenient way to add the nutrition of fruits and vegetables to their daily routine, Lisa is living out her personal mission. She helps everyone who is open to make lifestyle choices, which could stop preventable diseases in their tracks and live a longer, fuller, and healthier life. She can be reached on Facebook or on her website. 

Mayra Figureoa-Clark
Mayra Figureoa-Clark

Keeping The Home Fire Burning

Mayra is prepared to teach you how to bring home the bacon, fry it up in the pan and never let your husband forget he’s a man. In this class, you will learn practical tips and tools of organization and time management that every Sexy Wife needs to know in order to keep her King IN the Castle, and grinning from ear to ear while he’s there.

Mayra Figueroa-Clark is married to Derrick. She is passionate about propelling individuals towards their destined purpose partner. As a certified Life Coach and Professional Speaker, Mayra seizes every opportunity to help both women overcome the challenges that hinder their relationships. Mayra has been affectionally coined “The Love Expert” and can be found speaking to women about their fears, fumbles and fantasy that hold them back from an authentic relationship. Her straight-talking approach ignites and inspires! She will help you understand the science of love, communicate effectively with the opposite gender and how to break down those relationship barriers. She can be reached on Facebook or on her website. 

Ashley Gilbert
Ashley Gilbert

Burlesque – Sultry Dance

Every Sexy Wife needs to know how to both tease and please her man. Professional dancer and teacher Ashley Gilbert is going to guide you through communicating sex, romance through the art of sensual chair dancing.

Ashley Gilbert founder of I CAN, LLC is a Dance and Movement Life Coach. She has taught interpretive hip hop, and inspirational/motivational dance for over 10 years. Ashley has a passion to bring about self-awareness and empowerment through movement in women of all ages. She can be reached through Facebook or on her website

Kiki Ramsey
Kiki Ramsey

How to Walk In Forgiveness

Kiki Ramsey is a professional speaker, author, personal and executive coach. Her transformational strategies help people overcome limiting beliefs caused by fear, and find deeper purpose through harnessing their courage to create the lives they desire. She is the CEO of Kiki Ramsey International and the founder of Get Courageous, a personal development seminar designed to help people transform their lives and career. She is author of Get Courageous Now: A Woman’s Guide to Finding Her Passions and Purpose in Life and The Get Courageous Now Journal both offering women a step by step guide to radically breakthrough the mindset of fear. Through Kiki’s own transformation she role models living a life of purpose, confidence, and courage. She can be reached on Facebook or her website.

Sonia Benson
Sonia Benson

The Show & The Midnight Show

Sonia M. Benson is a well-known and respected Sexpert and Bedroom Kandi Consultant in the Washington, DC metropolitan area. Sonia has touched hundreds of women’s lives utilizing group facilitation, life coaching and other healing modalities including meditation, prayer and Reiki. Sonia has received facilitation training through a number of organizations, the most prominent being the Ascend Spiritual Flight Academy. She can be reached on Facebook or through her website.

Kim Reed Butler
Kim Reed Butler

Conference Host

Kim, who claims New York and New Jersey as home, has been living in the Maryland area since 1991 along with her husband, Reggie. Kim and Reggie have been married for 31 years. They are the proud parents of 3 sons, 1 daughter-in-law and two grandbabies, Michael & Edmund. She is a Personal Wellness Coach with Herbalife International. Kim has added another motto, “cherish the BODY you have, for it’s the ONLY one you get.” Kim commits herself to your journey by coaching you to your finish line. Kim wants you to look good and feel good! She can be reached through her website.


                                                              Staying Power

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Loving Through Addiction

How do you deal with addictive behavior? Addiction is a word that often causes shame, anger and even defeat in the minds of wives whether the addictive behavior is yours or your spouses. Learn how to address common additions like pornography, drugs, obsession in a way that you will leave victorious, capable of conquering the behavior for good.


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How to Walk In Forgiveness

We must develop and maintain the capacity to forgive. He who is devoid of the power to forgive is devoid of the power to love. There is some good in the worst of us and some evil in the best of us. When we discover this, we are less prone to hate our enemies.  In this class you will learn to forgive yourself, your husband and anyone who has hurt you!https://gailcrowder.com/wp-admin/post.php?post=635&action=edit#


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Keeping It Tight and Right

When you looked in the mirror for the first time after your child was born, did you see yourself as ‘a mommy’ or ‘your man’s hot mama’?  Still struggling with your weight’? If you desire the body that your husband lusted for before the baby, take great notes in this class! Regardless if it’s been 20 years or 2 weeks since your baby was born, this class will guide you in step-by-step techniques and programs that will bring your tight, right sexy pre-baby body back….all without plastic surgery.

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The Art of the Strip

Ripping off each other’s clothes and hitting the sheets can be fun. But slowing down  the process makes sex hotter. Come see how you can give him a full-on striptease, or just make getting naked a little more exciting! You will learn a tantalizing dance to seduce your husband with every inch of your body!

In this interactive class you will learn:

  • How to PEEL off  layers with style and sexy grace!
  • How to take control, seduce and keep both your husband’s eyes on you!
  • How to set the stage (your bedroom) for THE ART OF THE STRIP
  • How to execute your STRIP dance like a pro!      $55 (Class is limited to only 8 wives)
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The Show Is An In Your Face, Intense Hands-On Class For The Woman That Is Serious About Pleasing Her Man. Enrollment Is Limited To Allow Intimate Individual Review Of The Various Techniques That Will Be Taught. Seats are limited! This intense interactive class advances and builds upon the skills acquired in the foundation course. It is truly for the woman who is passionate about pleasing her man.


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The Midnight Show

Enrollment is Limited to Allow Intimate Individual Review of Skills. The Midnight Show is ONLY for the ladies that have completed ‘The Show’ at a previous BSB conference. Doors open at 11:45pm and class begins at Midnight. Class includes non-alcoholic beverages and light fare. $55

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Boudoir Photography

He wants it. You got it. Time to show him ALL about it!

Silk. Lace.  A ribbon. Your birthday suit.

Our Boudoir photo experience WILL bring

SEXXXY back to YOUR marriage.

Book now as these slots fill quickly!

  • Includes 30 minute session
  • Private Online Gallery
  • 1- 5 x 7 (Download) photo of your choice $55


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BSB Conference 2018- The Matrix

***********NEW LOCATION**************

DoubleTree by Hilton Hotel Downtown – Silver Spring

Address: 8727 Colesville Rd, Silver Spring, MD 20910

Phone: (301) 589-5200

Room Rate: $99.00 For a single or Double

ROOM Block Link Coming Soon!


***A $30.00 refundable incidental will be charged to your credit card at the time of your room reservation

Area Airports:

Baltimore/Washington International Thurgood Marshall Airport – BWI

Visit BWI airport website

Airport Phone:  (410) 859-7111

Ronald Reagan Washington National Airport – DCA

Visit DCA airport website

Airport Phone: (703) 417-8000

Washington Dulles International Airport – IAD

Visit IAD airport website

Airport Phone: (703) 572-2700

All registrations are final and payment in full is required at time of registration. In order for us to bring you continued value, we cannot provide refunds or exchanges.

Food is included for the Friday night “Girlfriends” dinner party. Lunch on Saturday is on your own.   There are a variety of affordable restaurants within walking/ driving distance of the hotel. The hotel will have an Express lunch menu for BSB.

Whatever makes you feel Confident, Sexy and Happy! So in other words Casual Chic!

Friday, January 26, 2018

12:00:  BSB The MATRIX registration opens

1:30-2:15: Staying Power

– Gail Crowder

2:30-3:15:  How To Walk In Forgiveness

– Kiki Ramsey

3:30-4:15:  Keeping It Tight And Right

– Lisa Schudel

3:00-4:30:  The Show ($Sextra)

– Sonia M. Benson

4:30-5:30:  Loving Through Addiction

– Ashley Gilbert

4:00:  OSW Haute Shop Opens

7:00-10:00: Girlfriend Dinner Party

9:00-9:45 Wife-Life One: God’s Design for Intimacy & Pleasure In Marriage

– Trenace Richardson

10:30-11:30 The Art Of The Strip ($Sextra)

– Ashley Gilbert

11:45 PM- 1:00AM The Midnight Show ($Sextra)

(only for previous ladies who have taken “The Show” )

– Sonia M. Benson

10:30-11:30 Exhale!

– Gail Crowder

Saturday January 27, 2018

  • 9:00-10:15:  Wife-Life Two
    – Keeping the home fire burning!- Mayra Figueroa-Clark
  • 10:30-11:00:  Wife-Life Three
    – Wife By Design- Gail Crowder
  • 11:10-12:00:  Hotel Checkout/ Games and Give-a-ways
  • 12:00-1:30:  Lunch (On your own)
  • 1:45- 2:15:  Wife-Life Four- Arousing Passion in Marriage
    – LaVonne Shaw
  • 2:30- 3:30:  Wife-Life Five
    – The Art Of Touch- Lisa Schudel
  • 3:30-4:30:  Wife- Life Six
    – Burlesque “Sultry” Dance- Ashley Gilbert
  • 4:45-5:15:  Wife-Life Seven
    – Heels & Hose=Hottie- Gail Crowder
  • 5:30-6:00   OSW Group Photo

What is Bringing Sexy Back to the Marriage (BSB) all about?

BSB is a premier organization that provides holistic marriage enhancing, scripture-based education to the modern wife for inspiring self-realization and spiritual exploration, igniting couples intimacy, and increasing sexual satisfaction within the marriage.

We achieve this by focusing on 3 aspects:

Self Realization & Spiritual Exploration

  • Feel sexy and confident, develop self-love and acceptance, and take home a strategy to finally have the marriage of your dreams.
  • Acquire techniques to enhance your beauty and create a balance between work, family, and marriage.
  • Apply Christian principles towards marriage and family life issues.

Sexual Satisfaction

  • Discover the vital role sex plays in the marriage for men and help your husband become a confident man and thriving provider by understanding and meeting his emotional needs.
  • Increase sexual pleasure by discovering his and her erogenous zones and learn how and when to touch them. Learn how to apply creative sexual positions and physical exploration for longer lasting lovemaking.
  • Prime yourself mentally and physically for sex by learning the art of seduction and realize his and her fantasies with improved communication skills.

Couples Intimacy

  • Cement your couple’s emotional bond by learning how to engage in straightforward and compassionate conversations.
  • Dive deeper into the sexual aspect of your marriage, fully understand your marital duties, and better relate your emotional needs to your spouse.
  • Significantly decrease the chances of infidelity and divorce and create emotional security by learning how to meet your husband’s physical and emotional needs.

This price includes the following: Friday Girlfriend’s Dinner Party and all conference materials, Main Stage Workshops, Wife Life classes. The registration excludes the special workshops/the Sextras, “The Show” Mid-Night Show, Boudoir Photos, Photo Shoot Makeup Session and Art Of The Strip.

No.  In order to reserve your room you must go through the hotel.